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At times in our lives, we each experience
problems in our relationships, in dating or meeting people.
Sometimes these relationship problems can be small ones and
sometimes they can be major ones. We can all use a little help
and advice in dealing with these problems. One of the best ways
of seeking help is to talk about or share your problems. Here,
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wife or Co-worker?
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Hello, I am married with 2 children ages 4 and 1
year. I have been married for 7 years and been with her for 9
years.
Recently I have been seeing a co-worker for the
past 2 months. We are really into each other and we have
talked about leaving our spouses to be with each other.
The problem I am having is lack of sex and no
communication. My wife tells me that I never help with the
kids and this is the reason for the lack of sex because she is so
tired at night. When I get home from work all I want to do is
watch sports and relax.
The women that I am seeing is going through the
same thing but minus the kids. Her husband does not pay her
any attention. I have no idea what to do.
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Our reply
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Reading your message gives the impression that deep inside you do
know what to do but are perhaps scared to face up to it.
Meeting attractive work colleagues can be fun but are you sure that
you really want to abandon your wife and family for her? Do you
really love your co-worker or is it just a case of pity or sympathy?
You are giving her attention, something which she claims she does
not get at home. A relationship needs to be based upon more than
just attention giving. You are fulfilling an immediate need for her
but does she really love you? Do you really love her?
Modern living can be stressful, so it is no surprise that both you
and your wife are tired in the evenings; she from looking after the
kids and you from work. You say that you just want to relax,
well so does she! She may also be looking for you to take a bit more
responsibility for looking after the kids. It seems that you may
both need to re-assess your lives and priorities, perhaps making a
commitment to rejuvenate your relationship.
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