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Threesomes: Sex with another woman

My Boyfriend and I have a great relationship (we also live together). Just recently he told me he would like to watch me have sex with another female and then join in. This makes me wonder if he is really trying to say he wants to have sex with another female. I'm too emotionally involved with him to watch him make love to someone other than me. Please tell me what you think? Am I acting too immature or am I feeling the right way about him and this situation? I believe if your in a good relationship then there shouldn't be anyone else except each other.

 

 

Our reply

Men are generally better able to separate sex and love. It sounds as if your boyfriend was expressing a fantasy to you and it is a common male fantasy. It does not mean that he loves you any less. If anything, it shows how close he is to you in that he felt able to express his fantasy to you. Talk to him about his fantasy and how it made you feel. He is likely to tell you that it was only a fantasy and not something he would force you to do against your will. Perhaps you could try sharing your fantasies with him. Remember, fantasies can be healthy and they don't always have to be turned into reality

 

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