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Cougar Women? Older Women Should Ignore The Age Gap And Have
Fun
By Ted
Burgess
I have recently encountered the words 'Cougar Women' - a term
dreamt up by some male or possibly jealous young female to
describe an older woman engaged in a relationship with a younger
man. The description 'Cougar Woman' infers a predatory mature
woman (35-50+) who hunts, stalks, lusts after and imposes her
attentions upon some innocent, inexperienced young male.
The traditional description for the older male who does
likewise is, 'Sugar Daddy' -- Would it not be appropriate, in
light of today's touted 'equality of the sexes' to apply the
description of Panther Daddy? Or, where the male is a cheating
spouse, then perhaps 'Cheetah Daddy' may fit the bill? Who
knows, if enough people around the world pick up on these
descriptions then such terms might ultimately become a part of
the English language.
We all know that in most cultures throughout history (even
today) untold numbers of innocent, naive and inexperienced young
women have being forced into unsuitable marriages. The
financial, social or political benefits from such actions pass
generally to males.
Today however (certainly within the western world cultures)
the majority of younger male or females involved in
relationships with 'Cougar Women' or 'Panther Daddies' are, far
from innocent, naive or inexperienced. They are educated and
understand that a 'consideration' or 'benefit' forms the part of
any contract. Who's to criticise such liaisons where the
partners have a clear understanding and appreciation of the
terms of engagement? Certainly -- Not this writer. Under the
assumption that we all enjoy but one lifetime, then we should
live our lives to the full but with the proviso that in doing so
we make every effort to avoid hurt to others.
The younger parties in such relationships can gain many
benefits that they may not (perhaps due to social position)
normally be able to attain in life. The older party will
certainly enjoy the boost to their ego and, no doubt the sexual
fun and games that will form a major feature of the
relationship.
The Cougar Woman and Panther Daddy relationships are but one
aspect of the 'Relationship Age Gap' equation. Statistics
indicate that 'Older woman – younger man' relationships have
increased substantially throughout that past sixty odd years and
that great numbers of such relationships are successful and
lasting based upon true and solid love connections.
Thanks to technology, health and beauty facilities of the
past 60 odd years there is no reason why older woman should
suffer the aging process experienced by their hard working great
and great-great grand mothers.
So, this now brings me to this word 'Mature'. As I look
around at the excellent physical conditions of some of the older
ladies that I know, then the word mature should apply more to
the 65 plus age range. An old friend of late, at age 60, had the
physique and facial looks of a 35-40 year old. Add to that her
'Leo sign' personality and she attracted (sometimes unwanted)
the attentions of males as young as 20. In fact she was pestered
for dates by a sane, good looking 22 year-old male and although
it was of much concern to her 30 year-old son, it was apparent
that the lady in question was somewhat thrilled at the attention
and, lets be frank about it. What woman wouldn't be?
I once read a biological article that claimed that the female
sexuality peeked at the 35-40 age ranges and the male in early
twenties. I would attach some credence to that claim based
partly upon personal experience and, after reading the draft
scripts of a book written by an acquaintance (Peter) based on
his 'Older Woman-Younger man' experiences. He comments that
'where terms of the relationship are understood from the outset
(pleasure affair, not a love affair) where the partners
experience a powerful mutual instant attraction both physically
and mentally, hold strong respect for each other and, perhaps
above all, enjoy an unfettered ability to communicate without
embarrassment, then such a relationship can develop into an
exciting, pleasurable and memorable life experience for both'.
Thank goodness society has changed. Today the older woman,
younger man relationship would pass unnoticed. Some 40 years
back however, discovery of the relationship would have resulted
in the older woman being condemned and ostracized without mercy
by society and, principally by her own sisterhood.
I have found Peter's writings of considerable interest
because they are based upon the personal diary notes of both
parties. The lady in question ultimately lived across the world
from Peter and, it is of romantic note that after years of
non-communication and, prior to her mental deterioration and
demise from a brain tumour she prepared the most endearing
letter that, together with diaries were to be passed on to Peter
if he was traced and still alive. More information on Peter's
book in Ebook form is available at the link appearing below.
So, to the slightly older girls out there ignore the silly
terms 'cougar' or 'mature' - if you fancy him, he fancies you
and you get on well, then go for it. Doesn’t matter if he's
younger -- you will both probably have a whale of a time both in
and out of the sack? That's the advice of an older gentleman who
now unfortunately, is too old to attract a chick and to young to
tolerate a geriatric.
Ted Burgess turned to the computer late in life as a mental
rehabilitation tool after heart attacks and strokes. For more on
Peter's Ebook 'Ignore the Age Gap & Have Fun' visit:
http://www.assetsoflife.com/The-Relationships-Place/ignore_the_age_gap_ebook.htm
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