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Do Opposites Attract or Grow Apart

me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now and we are a true
definitions of opposites attract. he is a red neck guy and I'm just not.. I love
him soo much and he loves me too and i am someone he has never been with before
but valentines just passed and i got nothing from him and sometimes he doesn't
respect me.. like tells me what to do and doesn't ask me and things along those
lines. i am just soo confused back in the begining i could see myself with him in
the future but now its getting farther and farther away. i feel like im going to
go farther in life then he is and i don't want him to hold me back what should i
do i really love and care about him.

 

Our reply

Your last words seem to say it all, you 'care about him'. You already sense that you and he are destined for different paths in life. Perhaps he senses it too. Perhaps he feels you will go further in life than he will and perhaps he resents that.

You say you got nothing from him on Valentine's Day. Did you give him anything? This does not sound like a loving relationship and it seems that you realise this.

You say that you do not want him to hold you back. So do not let him. It would seem that it is time for you to let go. You can still care about him but maybe you cannot love each other.

So maybe you are growing apart rather than attracting each other as you once did. In which case it is time for you both to move on.

 

 

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