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Why does she wear this Contraceptive Device?

I just started dating a new girl and have gone out on 5 dates now.  We have
not had sex yet but she wears some kind of strange plastic ring-thing inside her
for birth control.  I'm just wondering why a girl that supposedly does not have
one night stands and is careful about STDs etc... would wear this thing?  I'd
love to hear a womens's thoughts on this Q

 

 

Our reply

We assume you have asked her about it?

It seems that you may be having doubts about the sincerity of this girl and possibly questioning her motives.

The device you mention sounds like an IUD and is a method of birth control. The girl has taken the responsibility for contraception instead of leaving it up to the man. She has chosen this device instead of taking the pill or possibly as well as taking the pill.

Instead of questioning her, perhaps you should be congratulating her for taking on the responsibility for contraception. This indicates a positive and healthy decision on her part.

The reason she let you know that she used this device was possibly an indication that she was ready to have sex with you. Sadly, you may have lost the chance!

 

 

 

 

If you wish to know more about different methods of contraception, their uses and effectiveness, then try this book.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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