At times in our lives, we each experience problems in our relationships, in dating or meeting people. Sometimes these relationship problems can be small ones and sometimes they can be major ones. We can all use a little help and advice in dealing with these problems. One of the best ways of seeking help is to talk about or share your problems. Here, we give you the chance to tell us about your problem.

My Boyfriend does not give me attention

My boyfriend does not give me any attention. He spends most of his time away
from home. I ask him about it and all he say is he's hanging with friends. I'm
not happy with this situation at all--I don't know any of his friend and a few
family members(not ones he really be around).We've been together 2and half year.
I ask him where do I stand in his life and he responds-he don't know. I'm
feeling that I should let this relationship go----WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE TO ME ON
THIS


 

 

Our reply

It sounds as if there is something more that is wrong here. It is not simply that your boyfriend is not giving you attention, it is that this relationship is not meeting your needs.

It is quite possible that you and your boyfriend are growing apart. This happens and no one is to blame for it. The two of you seem to have different needs that are not being met by each other.

Only you can decide whether you want to give this relationship another chance but for it to work you will both need to recognise your own and each other's needs. Plus you will need to make a commitment to help meet each other's need.

Without such a commitment, it will be difficult for the two of you to make the relationship work.

 

 

 

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