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Another
girl shaking her ass for my boyfriend!
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problem is that, it all started with my boyfriend leaving his
notepad at my house so i went through not to be nosy i mean i
thought i might run across a special letter or poem for and i'm
being truly honest with that one.
What i found in the note pad was a letter to his friend who is male
and on one part of that letter he says to his friend" yo i had this
lady's daughter (because we were renting a room at the time and
there were nothing but females in there) he says i had her shaking
her ass on my couch that shit was fat ass all hell but i didn't have
sex with her" so i started to cry i felt betrayed, i slept in that
room with him, so he says no she came in there and started to do it,
so i believed him.
About a month went pass and i asked him was he keeping anything from
me and he said yes and he told me he asked her to shake her ass i
smack him and told him its over. Now he's begging
for me back. It's hard to take him back, he lied about the situation
and now it makes me think what if something else happen between them
or with another female. I don't know if i should
take him back or not. I really don't think i want him back but the
thing is I'm 13 weeks pregnant with his first child.
I don't want to be with him because of the baby, only because i want
to believe he didn't cheat but still it remains that he asked a
female to shake her butt in front of him what do i do; stay
and work it out or leave him?
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Our reply
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There is a lot of
sadness in your message and a lot of hurt. It's easy to sympathise
with you in your situation but not so easy to find solutions.
You say that you do not
want to be with him only because of the baby but because you want to
believe he didn't cheat on you with this other woman. Two things
come to mind, firstly he says he did not have sex with her and,
secondly, he had admitted to you that he asked her to shake her ass.
These suggest that he didn't cheat on you and all he was guilty of
was having excessive male hormones in his blood!
You say he is begging
to have you back. That may at least show that he wants you and
almost certainly thinks more of you than any other girl. You are
also carrying his child and it may be that he wants his child to be
brought up by a 'proper' family of man and woman.
Never forget, that you
were dishonest with him by looking through his notebook.
Whether you stay or
leave is your decision but it is a decision that should be made upon
whether you love this man or not. |
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