At times in our lives, we each experience problems in our relationships, in dating or meeting people. Sometimes these relationship problems can be small ones and sometimes they can be major ones. We can all use a little help and advice in dealing with these problems. One of the best ways of seeking help is to talk about or share your problems. Here, we give you the chance to tell us about your problem.

My girlfriend wants a break

I was in a 2 year relationship with my girlfriend when all of a sudden out of nowhere she says she needs a few month break from me. She says she still loves me and we will get back together in a few months. Is there another way to solve this problem?
 

Our reply
. I guess at the moment that your are feeling insecure. Your girlfriend has said she wants a break from your relationship and to you it sounds like she wants a break from you.

You do not say why she wants a break. Do you know the reasons ? Possibly not and this will make you even more insecure.

No doubt you are wondering whether this break will become permanent. This is always a possibility, maybe having a break is her way of gently letting go. On the other hand, there may well be valid other reasons why she wants a break and not to end it fully.

You ask if there is another way to solve the problem. The only other way is to talk openly and honestly about your relationship. If she is prepared to do this and if you are prepared to do this, then it will give both of you insights into how your relationship has been and the feelings you both have. It may also deepen the feelings you have for each other.

Also, keep in mind, that talking may also reveal the downside of your relationship. In which case, it may reveal that it is time to move on.

Either way, you will hopefully gain insights into how your relationship has been and how it can progress.

 

 

 
 

 

 

 

 

   

 

 

 

 

 

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