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I keep comparing my old boyfriend to my new guys

my problem is i broke up with a loser boyfriend a year ago.he is now with someone else & they have a kid together.i can't stop thinking of the "what if's" & "how comes".i don't want him back,but i keep comparing him to every other guy i i am depressed & can't get over it.what do i do?

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There seems to be some kind of hurt inside you. Are you jealous that your old 'loser' boyfriend now has a child ? Does he now have something that you want for yourself ?

You say that you do not want him back and yet you still compare him with other guys you meet. What was it about him that attracted you to him ? there seems to be some characteristic in him that you like or need. A characteristic you try to find in other guys.

Decide for yourself what it is you want for your life. Stop comparing him with your new guys, you are not giving them a fair chance. Whatever characteristic your old boyfriend had, cherish it. Take each guy for what they are and what they can offer.


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