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My Wife
does not Trust me
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My wife doesn't trust me
because I keep things about me and another
friend of ours from her. My wife was originally residing outside of
the US before she came here a year
ago.
I can't lie, I have
kept things such as me and the other girl
going out to movies and going to the friends house while
she wasn't in the country. I am also finding out that some of
my family members have been telling
my wife that I had something going on with the girl before she
came to the US.
Now my wife want me
to end all contacts with this girl who has
been like my best friend. I will go as far as to say that I have
developed some feelings for her.
I feel that it is
unfair and controlling of her to ask me
not
to have anything to do with this girl. I have been calling the girl
at work and when my wife finds out it has
caused us arguments. Please advise me on how to
go about this situation.
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Our reply
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You are
talking here about your wife, on one hand, and a close friend, on
the other. Surely your wife is more important to you ? If you do not
feel your wife is more important to you, then you should question
your whole relationship.
You admit to
being unfaithful to your wife, perhaps not physically but at least
emotionally, in seeing this other woman. Feeling lonely and seeking
company while your wife was out of the country is understandable but
dating and building a relationship (other than friendship) with
someone else, are not acceptable.
You say that
your wife does not come from the US, this does not mean that she is
is any way inferior and should be treated any less than a US woman.
If your wife
has asked you not to see this woman, then you should agree to that
or at least compromise and agree to meet her only with your wife
present. You need to show your wife and your family members that you
are committed to your relationship.
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