Further Reading

The Divorce Primer. This is a book you should read... just in case!

Break Free from The Affair   Dealing with a cheating spouse or cheating boyfriend can be one of the most painful and devastating experiences a relationship can face.
I cannot recommend this book enough. It helps you understand the reasons for an affair and sets out ways to deal it.

The Anatomy of an Affair  Being bitter and angry is not a way to spend the rest of your life. Nor is being distrustful, suspicious or jealous of anyone with whom you are involved.. You deserve to move on and "The Anatomy of An Affair" will provide you with the tools to get your life back on track whether you choose to stay in your relationship or end it.

The essence of infidelity

Why Do Men Cheat ?

There are many reasons why men cheat

Understanding Why Men Cheat

	How to catch a man cheating. There are proven ways of finding out if your partner is cheating on you
	Are you dating a potential cheat? Read this article to find out.
	Is your man having an online affair? Read this article to discover 10 signs of an online affair.
	Will your partner cheat or not? Read this article to find out.
	How to Beat the Cheat find out quickly how to beat a cheating partner. Find out for real if they are cheating and with whom and for how long.

If you want to know more about why men cheat or you suspect your partner of cheating, we recommend this book; which is available online from Amazon.com

Never Satisfied: How & Why Men Cheat

The book is a collection of interviews of men who have cheated. It also takes a hard look at the role of the other woman as well as the tolerant wives and girlfriends. Never before has a book dealt with infidelity on such a realistic level.

A warning to all men out there who are cheating or considering cheating: If your woman has read or is reading this book, you had better decide to do the right thing and show some restraint or change your methods all together

How to Catch Your Cheating Lover ! A no nonsense guide to catching your cheating lover.  As it says on their website ...This material is only for those who are fed up with their partners antics and are serious about finding out what’s been going on when “no one is watching”. How to Catch Your Cheating Lover !

Almost every day, we receive emails to our problems page asking us why men     cheat. It could be boyfriends, husbands or partners, all, or so it would seem, cheat.

There is probably not a simple answer to why men cheat. We guess each case is unique in its own way. Nevertheless, here are some reasons why men cheat. Perhaps you can read them and gain an insight into why your man may be cheating on you.

1. Sex - Yes, pure and simple. A man may cheat on you simply for sex. A man is able to have sex with another woman without having feelings for her. He can also have sex with another woman without affecting his emotions for his partner. So we guess the good news is that if your man has had sex with another woman, he may still be in love with you !

2. Ego - We all know how the male likes to have his ego boosted every now and then. Well having sex with a woman is a boost to his ego. The more women he has, the bigger the boost. If you don't believe us, just listen to guys talking about sex, they are more likely to talk about quantity rather than quality.

3. Excitement - Men, like us all, need excitement in their lives. Sometimes a relationship can squash that excitement, no matter how good the relationship. Having an affair brings some excitement back for them. We guess it's like having a new toy.

4. Because they can - How often have we heard this excuse? Yet it is true, men can cheat by having affairs and perhaps do it without too much conscience pricking.

5. Trophy hunting - This seems to go back to the very basics of male instincts. Young guys before they settle down are keen on trophy hunting - be it notches on the bed post, marks in a diary, empty wine bottles, photos etc. They are more interested in the number of girls they lay as a means of proving themselves to other guys and to themselves. It seems that some guys just cannot let go of this phase and may cheat in order to continue hunting trophies.

6. Fear of getting old - It seems that to some men, cheating is a way of proving to themselves and their mates that they are still young and able to 'pull'